Specialities | Mellow Mindset
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Treatment of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) using Exposure and Response Therapy (ERP)

The OCD cycle begins with an obsession, to which meaning is applied, causing a spike in distress. The person, believing that their distress will continue to mount until it is unbearable, or finding it unbearable already, engages in a compulsion, which provides relief! Unfortunately, the relief is increasingly short-lived, but all the brain remembers is that it worked, and that psychogenic experience trains the brain to do exactly the same thing when the obsession re-appears, which it inevitably does. The obsession has not been confronted, just momentarily avoided, and the underlying relationship with fear (or emotional distress/discomfort) worsens.

 

ERP works to quickly and effectively break this cycle by helping individuals learn to tolerate distress without engaging in compulsions, tapping into the body's own ability to regulate emotion and face even the most challenging fears. While OCD is better understood today than it has ever been, it should still be treated by a therapist with specific training in OCD and ERP or ICBT (another effective modality) as some approaches commonly used for other related issues can inadvertently exacerbate the problem.

Understanding and Evolving Attachment Patterns

The way we see ourselves and the world around us is shaped from a very young age. Our experience with our primary caregivers becomes the blueprint for the dynamics in all our future relationships. Examining our own and others attachment styles can feel like flicking a light switch on in a previously pitch black room. We are able to dive below the surface of seemingly gridlocked patterns and start building secure attachment. These patterns not only inform how we see ourselves and the world around us, they are the largest influence in who we are attracted to, who we choose as a romantic partner, and how we function within that relational dynamic. Understanding our own unique attachment stories can liberate us from repeating frustrating and painful cycles, and find deeper fulfillment and connection withing ourselves and relationships.

Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC)

Did you know you are actually your best therapist? Beneath constant hum of our mental chatter and the endless onslaught of information and experiences available to us, lives a silent observer, witnessing our lives with a steady and timeless gaze. Connecting with this innermost being is not only deeply comforting, but powerfully transformative. Mindfulness is one gentle and accessible way to nurture this relationship with your higher self. Through mindful self-compassion, we open the doorway to a new, deeply fulfilling, and endlessly fascinating relationship - the relationship with the most important person you will meet in this lifetime - YOU!

Other Specialties: Intimate Partner Work, Reclaiming Your Authentic Self, Recovery From Trauma 

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